In my neighbour's house there is a couple of twin baby, a boy and a girl. I like to spend time with them, because of the innocence that child have. I remember the day, I went to wish them for first day of their new school. But I was surprized to know that they were going to two different school. I could feel the pain in their eyes, because perhapes that was the first day they had been going to seperate from one another for a long hours. As twins since birth day has been accompanied each other, they love the same, eat the same, wear the same, and feel the same. Then why their parents send them to different schools!
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And then I found the reason. So called thinking of the society. The boundaries and the list of works what they can do or not. One is not born a women, but become one. Being a girl she should have some limits. Limits in her dream, limits in her desire, limits in her behaviour. Likewise being a man he should be mantaly strong, man should not cry no matter wheather he is broken inside. Before being man or women we are human being and we all have some emotion. Boy's favourate color can be pink and girl can like to ride bullet, boy can love to cooking food and girl can repair a machine, a boy admire dance as hobby while a girl don't,instead of playing with gun a boy can love to listen tale from his grandmom. A girls parents worried more about her marriage more than her education. Why girl are seen as emotional fool and a boy expect not to cry, is his heart made of stone?
In our home girls are teach how to behave in society, not go out at night, do not answering a boys comment, or can say girls are trained as they can only listen but not to answer back. But at the same home boys are never teached how to behave with a women, his all guilt has granted. This is our society, though ofcourse it cann't be generalised. Give them the sky and learn them to fly, it is up to them on which time they want to fly, either day or night.
Time mooving fast and changes too. Changes is always accepted in our society. But the thing is changes in outer world is not enough. If we really want to change the society we should able to bring change in our thought. We should develope our mind. As the great Shakespeare said, "mind is in its own place can make a hell of heaven and a heaven of hell".
And then I found the reason. So called thinking of the society. The boundaries and the list of works what they can do or not. One is not born a women, but become one. Being a girl she should have some limits. Limits in her dream, limits in her desire, limits in her behaviour. Likewise being a man he should be mantaly strong, man should not cry no matter wheather he is broken inside. Before being man or women we are human being and we all have some emotion. Boy's favourate color can be pink and girl can like to ride bullet, boy can love to cooking food and girl can repair a machine, a boy admire dance as hobby while a girl don't,instead of playing with gun a boy can love to listen tale from his grandmom. A girls parents worried more about her marriage more than her education. Why girl are seen as emotional fool and a boy expect not to cry, is his heart made of stone?
In our home girls are teach how to behave in society, not go out at night, do not answering a boys comment, or can say girls are trained as they can only listen but not to answer back. But at the same home boys are never teached how to behave with a women, his all guilt has granted. This is our society, though ofcourse it cann't be generalised. Give them the sky and learn them to fly, it is up to them on which time they want to fly, either day or night.
Time mooving fast and changes too. Changes is always accepted in our society. But the thing is changes in outer world is not enough. If we really want to change the society we should able to bring change in our thought. We should develope our mind. As the great Shakespeare said, "mind is in its own place can make a hell of heaven and a heaven of hell".
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